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Hoo boy, another reason to link this fucked-up article that treated women who literally want to recreate the 30s-50s as adorable bunnies, instead of people with weird fetishes and/or mental problems.

After decades of relentless pounding from a backlash media, people are beginning to sour on women’s liberation. (Hat tip, with criticisms of the methodology.)

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The study, by Professor Jacqueline Scott from the University’s Department of Sociology, found evidence of “mounting concern” that women who play a full and equal role in the workforce do so at the expense of family life.

Although there are no signs of a full-scale gender-role backlash, there does appear to be growing sympathy for the old-fashioned view that a woman’s place is in the home, rather than in the office…..

In the 1990s, for example, more than 50% of women and 51% of men said they believed that family life would not suffer if a woman went to work[In Britain]. Since then, the figure has fallen – to 46% of women and 42% of men. Fewer people (54.9% of women and 54.1% of men) now take the view that a job is the best way for a woman to be independent than in 1991.

The results are even more extreme in the United States, where the percentage of people arguing that family life does not suffer if a woman works has plummeted, from 51% in 1994 to 38% in 2002. About the same number of West Germans (37%) agree; but the number there has risen, having been just 24% in the mid-1990s.

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It’s no wonder, since we’re inundated with movies, TV shows, and hand-wringing news articles about how “family life” has completely fallen to shit now that women have their own bank accounts. The conundrum—women are doing less work at home, but we can’t expect men to pick up the slack, because that’s shit work and meant for the second class—hasn’t ever really been resolved. Plus, most homes where women work, they have to. Which means that it’s easy to romanticize the housewife without ever actually having to put your money where your mouth is and live that way. The grass gets even greener on the other side when you know that you can’t cross over because of the barbed wire fence.

The “Time Warp” article shows exactly how romanticizing the housewife works. Like this woman:

I admit I am in retreat from the 21st century. When I look at the reality of the world today, with all the violence, greed and materialism, I shudder. I don’t want to live in that world.

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The 50s were free of violence, greed or materialism? Huh, tell that to the people that died in the Korean War. But really, it gets even weirder:

Neither of us drinks and our social life revolves around visiting like-minded friends for tea and cakes.

Gosh, do you think people didn’t drink in the 50s? Then how come you’ve got a bar full of the gazillion accessories that were popular in the hard-drinking 50s?

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Okay, that woman is a loony, but it’s just an extreme example of how it’s easy to imagine that another way of living is so much better than yours, when you don’t have to live in it. She waxes poetic about how protective men were, but fails to realize that life wasn’t a TV show, and many women didn’t have protection. And those who did have it had it at the price of their own right to define themselves.

I’m not sure how much stock to put in this study, except that it means that people are more likely to be open to hearing about how restricting women’s rights will somehow bring back the imaginary good old days. Or maybe they don’t want to chance ruining their fantasies by trying them out.


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Ch-ch-changes…..

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After many years and many server changes and finally landing here at Raw Story, which has taken very good care of us, it's time to say goodbye to Pandagon. I've been blogging under this banner for ten years, after Jesse Taylor asked me to join. He, in turn, had been running this joint since he was in college. A lot has changed since then. I became a journalist, moved from Austin to New York and learned to play Dungeons & Dragons. Jesse became a lawyer and, just this past weekend, a married man.

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Carly Fiorina defends her lie with a whole bunch of lies

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I do like it when Republican candidates sport a resume full of corporate executive work, because it really shows the public how many fools and idiots coast into that position not on merit but on their bullshitting abilities. Donald Trump, Herman Cain, and now we have Carly Fiorina, who just can't understand why her perceived underlings (voters, journalists) won't scurry away, pretending to accept her bullshit like former employees of hers had to do, lest they lost their jobs.

And so it goes that Fiorina, who could make this entire Planned Parenthood controversy go away by saying something like, "I may have misremembered the video, but I still think abortion is wrong," instead is doubling and tripling down. And every time she does, she lies more and more. She was on Meet the Press and, so enamored of the idea that she is perfect and could never do anything wrong, just went to town with the defensive posturing.

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Marco Rubio has an astoundingly low opinion of women’s intelligence

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At RH Reality Check, I covered this story that I wish was getting more press, about how Marco Rubio goes back and forth between suggesting that women who get abortions are greedy monsters who get pregnant for cash:

I just think you’ve created an industry now … a situation where very much, you’ve created an incentive for people not just to look forward to having more abortions, but being able to sell that fetal tissue for purposes—these centers—for purposes of making a profit off it, as you’ve seen in some of these Planned Parenthood affiliates.

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