Pandagon
Using people's personal angers against them
I'm in a sympathetic mood, because I just finished listening to Mat Johnson on a podcast talking about the diehard Clinton supporters who have clearly projected their own struggles onto Hillary Clinton and are taking her defeat in the primary as a referendum on their very right to be in the public sphere. Johnson made the point that he felt the same way as an Obama supporter in a lot of ways---specifically, the chance to look at the candidate and relate in a way that's previously been denied you---and to be deprived that at what no doubt seems the last minute has got to be frustrating. He also makes some good points about the dynamics of the race, and how Obama's campaign was privileged by the slow build, and Clinton's campaign turned into a nightmare as they lost their grasp, and these things, independent of identity politics, framed the nastiness of the primary. He also makes points that resonated with me about why, if Clinton's loss seems so personal to some women, it just doesn't to me, which is complex and not worth going into here.
So, it's with sympathy that I read this piece by Erica Jong (hat tip) about how personal the whole loss feels to some women. I am sympathetic, for instance, to this, even as I disagree with it.
This is not to imply that Hillary Clinton is faultless -- far from it. But it's clear that the faults we tolerate and even overlook in men, we see as glaring in women.
In most women's personal lives, this makes a lot of sense. It's why women are probably so much harder to get to open up about their opinions than men. Most women I know tend to relate to the sense that if a man is wrong, he's just wrong on that one thing, but if a woman is wrong, it easily turns into a referendum on her entire being, her right to speak at all, and perhaps the rights of all women to say anything. We've all had men shame us into silence with this tactic.
But Jong's wrong. She's projecting something that tends to work more on a personal level onto a public figure, and her examples show the fallacy in her reasoning.
McCain can confuse Sunnis and Shiites and nobody blinks. Bush can admit to his press secretary that he outed a secret agent while claiming that he'd fire any aide who did so -- and the press sleeps.
She stumbled not so much onto a sexist double standard as a partisan one. Is there any doubt that if Obama mixed up Sunnis and Shiites like McCain did that it would be front page news? Evidence that the narrative started by Clinton but carried on by McCain---that Obama is "inexperienced"---is true?
Clinton made a big, whopping mistake in her Iraq war vote. The voters have a right to start standing up against milquetoast Democrats who meekly do what the Republicans instruct them to do. At the end of the day, that has nothing to do with gender. For huge swaths of the party, Clinton has become the symbol of just such Democratic weakness. Interestingly, another female leader has become the symbol of Democratic backbone on this all-important issue, and like Obama, her career has done well because of it.
This primary pulled the party, ever so slightly and ever so gently, to the left just a teeny bit. That's progress, and the media-driven noise has eclipsed that fact. Not to say that race and gender weren't big issues in this campaign, but it's seemed from the beginning to me that the lack of a white guy in the contest should have really been cause for reasonable people to call that a draw and move on. It's obvious why the media and the campaigns decided to stoke that flame anyway, because race and gender, unlike a lot of other contentious but important issues in elections, hit so damn close to home. People take it personally, tempers rise, and reason flies out the door. I'm not saying that the anger isn't real. In fact, the opposite. It's so real it becomes all-encompassing, and eclipses other issues that are real, but maybe a little more distant. Issues like the partisan double standard, or the Iraq war.
For some reason, I find this comforting
[Opposition leader] David Cameron has revealed his much commented upon centre-parting at last week's prime minister's questions was the result of wearing a bike helmet.
Mr Cameron, who normally parts his hair to one side, had a new look for the clash with Gordon Brown on Wednesday.
No word on how he feels about whiskey, but at least he's not a windsurfer.
Disaccomplishmentarianism
Via Ta-Nehisi Coates, today's Krugman column is problematic.
Unlike Ta-Nehisi, I don't find the problem to be Krugman's citation of faceless fervent Obama supporters, but instead this:
Fervent supporters of Barack Obama like to say that putting him in the White House would transform America. With all due respect to the candidate, that gets it backward. Mr. Obama is an impressive speaker who has run a brilliant campaign — but if he wins in November, it will be because our country has already been transformed.
(Emphasis added.)
Now, I'm not of the opinion that the Glorious Revolution* will transform our nation outright, but I'm starting to notice an undercurrent of dismissiveness towards what Obama represents. When he becomes president, it won't be because he put together a remarkable campaign that took on the best opposition available and triumphed over it, or because he mounted a campaign that put forth the first credible black candidate in a general election and convinced enough of the American public that he was better than their worst fears about black men and the black community.
No, it'll be because we did the hard work of letting ourselves know that black people really aren't that scary, and (presumably) that Obama just happened to stumble along and notice the sign on the window that said "Help Wanted - First Black President".
I'm already tired of accomplishments that aren't accomplishments because they were accomplished.
*This week's edict from the Revolution: Macbeth was no longer written by William Shakespeare, but instead by Tyler Perry. Lady Macbeth was never so sassy!
It's a man's, man's Midol world
I hadn't seen the outrageous recent ad by the menstrual pain reliever Midol, but it hasn't gone unnoticed. Unlike this ridiculous ad from the 1960s ("Betty's Gay with Midol", today's marketing geniuses decided that the new slogan for the product should be "Midol, Reverse the Curse."
The ad was described by feministabonita:
The commercial "There is a reason it's called the curse, _____________ ** , cramps and bloating" (commercial shows women in their bras with extended bellies) Then it goes on to blab about Midol…and shows a happy woman running down the beach.I assume that after we get a euphoric high from taking Midol, we must run around and what not. We feel alive and energetic released from the repressions of menstruation, something that is inconceivable when plagued with cramps and bloating.
See Emily Blog said:
Look, no one said that time of the month is fun- but a curse? It’s a bodily function. Sure, it’s great that women who have really bad symptoms have medications like Midol available to them so that they don’t have to spend the week in bed, but you don’t have to make them feel bad about being a woman. The commercial is supposed to be empowering, but how is telling women that they have a curse on them ever supposed to be empowering?
I actually just received a letter from a reader about this Midol madness. Read the letter -- and the response from the company -- below the fold. Slowmovinghorse had this to say:
I was flipping through Glamour magazine when I saw the newest Midol ad that claims it can "Reverse the Curse." While I entirely support the idea of making REAL menstruation product ads (displaying a woman in pain, say, instead of a bunch of cheery women dancing in white pants), I have to admit this was a little overboard. So I sent the Midol/Bayer company an email that reads:"I saw an ad in Glamour magazine which said "Midol: Reverse the Curse."
Excuse me...CURSE?
Is it 1888 again and I just didn't realize, or were you attempting to negatively influence women's opinions on a perfectly natural and HEALTHY body function?
Next time you design an ad, please consider the fact that it is 2008, and that your outdated language is detrimental to your customers (who are WOMEN, by the way, and would rather NOT be insulted) and gives the Midol company a bad name.
Too bad, I almost purchased some for this month. Not that you care, because my $8 will not affect your profit.
You say "cramps are the reason a period is called a Curse?"
Hardly. Religion dictates that women were "cursed" with menstruation and painful childbirth as punishment for eating the apple.
I'd be mad at you, but the fact that you have this simple fact wrong is only further indicative of your ignorance."
And the response?
Thank you for taking the time to contact Bayer HealthCare about MIDOL Pain Relief Formula. We appreciate your interest in Bayer HealthCare and our products.In response to your email, many women easily relate to the colloquial phrase "the curse" to describe the full spectrum of symptoms they may encounter during their menstrual cycle. By using the phrase the "curse" to refer to these symptoms openly in our advertising, we are actually hoping to reinvent the meaning behind the association and help reduce some of the stigma that can be associated with a woman’s period. Midol is a brand that is dedicated to women’s health and is providing relief from the various symptoms women may encounter during their menstrual cycle, including cramps, fatigue and bloating.
Please be assured that your comments will be shared with our management team. Your feedback is vital to our continuous improvement efforts.
If I may be of further assistance, please feel free to contact me.
Sincerely,
Gabrielle Trujillo
Consumer Advisor
midol_contactus@bayer.com
More ads can be seen and described at https://www.mum.org/midolsads.htm. My personal favorite for rank sexism is this howler from the 70s. This Shaun Cassidy doppelganger is why all the young women who are having PMS need to pop a Midol -- for his sake.
Dance, hypocrites, dance!
For blatantly partisan reasons, I hope that H. Ross Perot makes a big stink out of the story of McCain's first wife. From what I understand of the wingnut mind, the people already wary of McCain will feel vindicated about using his POW status against him as evidence that he's not a real man, especially since his wife got into a terrible car accident while he was gone and Perot, a big POW advocate, paid for her medical bills. As Glenn Greenwald amply demonstrated in his book Great American Hypocrites, given the choice between a real war hero/veteran and one who plays pretend like George W. Bush or John Wayne, wingnuts will pick the latter every time. Pretend war heroes give you that juice of manly courage without all the messy realities. Real veterans are often regarded with suspicion, since it's assumed that having actually seen the reality of war, they might not be gung-ho about pretending it's a cross between a Hollywood movie and a sports event. Look at what's happened with McCain. Even though he's been a loyal asshole and supported torture, he's gotten a reputation as someone "weak", because he's actually been tortured, and it's assumed he's lost his taste for it. None of this applies to the larger population of Americans, though, who do think of genuine military service as an asset.
I'm skeptical (as I think Nick is) that the whole story of what happened after McCain got back from Vietnam will hurt McCain in the "family values" department. If he was a woman, well yeah. Dumping the first spouse for one that has the money and connections to start your political career---and who looks better on your arm as a trophy---who you then denigrate with gendered insults would pretty much be the end of that woman's career in politics. But since the phrase "family values" is a euphemism for "patriarchy", I can expect this whole story of McCain's adulteries and his trading the old model wife for a new, better-functioning one will not hurt him with the "family values" set. Most of those who are wary of him are wary because they think he's secretly pro-choice or something. And with some of the "family values" set, McCain will be more likeable because he knows how to put a bitch into her place.
But Nick's right that people like Ross Douthat are dedicated with stated values that are more even-handed and demanding of male responsibility. God knows the maudlin nature of this Daily Mail article implies that part of the price men pay for their "right" to rule over women is responsibility for the care and feeding of the disabled first wife, and I can see that requirement troubling the naive Douthats of the world. But this will be their trial by fire. Real patriarchs have to learn to do the two-step. 1) Advocate male responsibility and 2) make excuses for men who don't live up to that standard. Blaming women is always a good start, which is why there's so much examining of rape victims for accidental seductive behaviors that let their attackers completely off the hook. Blaming Carol McCain for the end of their marriage isn't going to work, I think---her children were so vocal in their anger about McCain courting his next wife during his marriage to his first one, to make sure that he was spared that unfortunate single period where your laundry doesn't just do itself---so I expect there to be some shifting responsibility to liberals to explain why we're making an issue out of this at all.
Which I guess is fair. I can't really think that the solution to John McCain's unhappy marriage was to stay in it. What for? Is this the 19th century? It's not like Carol McCain is a fallen woman who has to beg for scraps because she's unmarriageable and destitute. I just don't think that sticking by unhappy marriages is ever much of a solution.
That said, his repeated adulteries and blatant trophy wife-seeking are good things to make hay over, especially since he's running as Mr. Family Values. There's something really pathetic about the fact that he couldn't leave his wife fair and square before he started dating again. Dating is so much easier with a wife at home, I suppose. I know when I was dating, I could have used someone to manage my social calendar and housework. The pleasure will be in watching the "family values" set doing the hypocrisy dance over this.
Aluminum!
Fred Hiatt breaks through the hemp-lined flower shield of dirty hippiedom and throws some truth in our faces:
But dive into Rockefeller's report, in search of where exactly President Bush lied about what his intelligence agencies were telling him about the threat posed by Saddam Hussein, and you may be surprised by what you find.
On Iraq's nuclear weapons program? The president's statements "were generally substantiated by intelligence community estimates."
On biological weapons, production capability and those infamous mobile laboratories? The president's statements "were substantiated by intelligence information."
On chemical weapons, then? "Substantiated by intelligence information."
On weapons of mass destruction overall (a separate section of the intelligence committee report)? "Generally substantiated by intelligence information." Delivery vehicles such as ballistic missiles? "Generally substantiated by available intelligence." Unmanned aerial vehicles that could be used to deliver WMDs? "Generally substantiated by intelligence information."
Oh no! He cited some places where things were "generally substantiated by intelligence information"! We know from a lifetime of selling temporary henna tattoos at the local farmer's market that if people "generally" say truth-like things, it means that their credibility is unimpeachable. What say you, Mr. Final Phase II Report on Iraq Prewar Intelligence?
Ø Statements and implications by the President and Secretary of State suggesting that Iraq and al-Qa’ida had a partnership, or that Iraq had provided al-Qa’ida with weapons training, were not substantiated by the intelligence.Ø Statements by the President and the Vice President indicating that Saddam Hussein was prepared to give weapons of mass destruction to terrorist groups for attacks against the United States were contradicted by available intelligence information.
Ø Statements by President Bush and Vice President Cheney regarding the postwar situation in Iraq, in terms of the political, security, and economic, did not reflect the concerns and uncertainties expressed in the intelligence products.
Ø Statements by the President and Vice President prior to the October 2002 National Intelligence Estimate regarding Iraq’s chemical weapons production capability and activities did not reflect the intelligence community’s uncertainties as to whether such production was ongoing.
Ø The Secretary of Defense’s statement that the Iraqi government operated underground WMD facilities that were not vulnerable to conventional airstrikes because they were underground and deeply buried was not substantiated by available intelligence information.
Ø The Intelligence Community did not confirm that Muhammad Atta met an Iraqi intelligence officer in Prague in 2001 as the Vice President repeatedly claimed.
But...but, Fred Hiatt said that you said that things were "generally substantiated by intelligence information"!
Ø Fred Hiatt's face is generally substantiated by his ass.
That seems...hostile.
Ø Fred Hiatt's face is hostile. To life.
Well, then. You seem bitter, Mr. FPIIoIPI. Go relax, I'll finish this up.
Ø Thanks, dude.
So, Hiatt, what do you have to say?
Why does it matter, at this late date? The Rockefeller report will not cause a spike in "Bush Lied" mug sales, and the Bond dissent will not lead anyone to scrape the "Bush Lied" bumper sticker off his or her car.
But the phony "Bush lied" story line distracts from the biggest prewar failure: the fact that so much of the intelligence upon which Bush and Rockefeller and everyone else relied turned out to be tragically, catastrophically wrong.
It could be that intelligence agencies were under pressure to produce intelligence that would validate the case for war, no matter the consensus that they were dead wrong. It could be that the intelligence community was under pressure to bury doubts and promote things that validated the preexisting line, no matter how little credibility it had. Or, on the other hand, it could just be that all the American prewar intelligence all happened to be spontaneously and concurrently wrong, all in the exact same direction towards the exact same purpose.
Like your face.
More Ribs, Please
Openly frustrated by what they see as an ongoing double standard in the press’s treatment of his campaign, Sen. John McCain and his aides have been aggressively denouncing unfavorable stories as “smear jobs” and “scurrilous attacks,” while the candidate himself has launched a series of stinging attacks on Sen. Barack Obama.
It’s a dangerous posture for a candidate whose political success is intimately tied with his image as an irrepressible happy warrior — equal parts President Ronald Reagan and Vice President Hubert Humphrey, with a dash of his old Arizona buddy Rep. Mo Udall’s sharp sense of humor — and whose appeal to independents owes nearly as much to character and personal narrative as to issues and ideology.
Shorter Politico: I thought we were friends, John! Friends! You even signed my yearbook!
The rest of the article is simply a bunch of theorized ways in which McCain could go crazy and do angry ninja shit, all of which is motivated by the same barely concealed sense of violation - John McCain spent years wining and dining (literally) a press corps from his perch of being Maverick McMaverick. Now that he's in a position where something's actually at risk and he's running as the standard bearer of a party rather than your cool friend with the kickass house and the party bus, he's got to actually start treating the media like he's *gasp* a Republican.
If you look at the arc of McCain's career, the one thing that stands out is that he's never actually been in danger of...anything, really. He hasn't been in a truly close race since the 1980s, and he hasn't had to seriously fight a Democrat in a winner-take-all format since the same time. It was always easy for him to be the media's best friend (and boy, are they friendly) precisely because he never had anything to lose - either he was so far behind (2000 and most of 2007) that being friendly to the media got him credibility and cachet to carry him through or so far ahead that bad coverage really didn't matter.
The primary season was effectively a joke. McCain managed to beat a cousin-marrier, a walking corpse, a shiny-haired cultist, a paranoid, elfin obstetrician and a nice guy who used to be really fat (but was still, like all the rest of these guys, broke).
I think John McCain might be an anime character.
This is the first time in more than 20 years that McCain's faced an actual challenge, and certainly the first time since he defeated the Four Winds of Mesa Hills Country Club and inherited the mantle of Maverick of Mavericks that something's truly, honestly been this credibly close and in danger of being taken from him. Reporters, I'd stop planning on sharing quiche recipes with him and start planning on hearing how you're worthless vultures giving a black guy an easy ride because of your liberal guilt.
Don't say I didn't warn you. Or offer up a better dry rub recipe, if you want it.
The patriarchy weighs in on the Democratic primary
Jill beat me to it, dammit. The Patriarchy steps in and gives his opinion on who he supported in the primary season. Marc promises a whole series of episodes of Manhood, starring The Patriarchy himself. If Stephen Colbert just wasn't working under the FCC regulations..... Which is another way to say this is most definitely NSFW.
About those "Present" votes...
I don't want to belabor this point too much, because McCain would have to be a massive hypocrite to bring it up*, but I thought it was worth noting:
[T]he IllinoisPlanned Parenthood Council says Obama's "present" votes were actually part of a careful strategy to prevent those restrictions from passing.
President Pam Sutherland said the group feared several senators were going to vote "yes" on the legislation because of attacks from Republicans over their past opposition. Sutherland says she approached Obama and convinced him to vote "present" so that the wavering senators would do the same. For their purposes, a "present" was as good as an outright "no" because it kept the bills from reaching the majority needed to pass.
* So expect it any day now.
Raising visibility and diversity: Obama's LGBT outreach call and commitment to the community
On Friday, Barack Obama's campaign held a conference call for about 1200 bloggers, media and LGBT community members to discuss its outreach efforts for the general election. I was invited to be on the impromptu call, but it coincided right when I was on a flight. The good news is Andrew Belonsky of Queerty was on and blogged it.
What's notable is that Obama deputy campaign director, Steve Hildebrand, acknowledged Hillary Clinton voters' participation and importance in the primary process.
Now that Obama has clinched the Democratic nomination, however, the Senator's campaign must do everything in its power to rally the gay troops ahead of November's election. And, obviously, it won't be easy and it happen over night, nor does the campaign expect such a turn around. Said Hildebrand:We know that there are a lot of people who have supported Senator Clinton who are on the call with us today and we greatly appreciate that. We know that each of you will take your time to wrap your head around the situation, to hopefully join Barack in his venture moving forward at whatever point you are comfortable doing so. We certainly recognize the pain that goes with some of this, but know that you have a welcome home here that we need your help, that we want your help. We will take it whenever you are ready should you get to that point.In order to stress the message of unity - and prove the campaign's gay chops - Hildebrand then turned the call over to Elizabeth Birch, the former HRC executive director who lent her support to Clinton's campaign.
In perhaps the most emotional explanation we've heard on the matter, Birch explained the significance of this election in her family, which includes two biracial twins, a girl and a boy. Said Birch, "…From the beginning had to be careful about how wildly enthusiastic we were about Hillary Clinton because, quite frankly, my little boy looks like Obama. So, it was complex and emotional."
Andrew noted:
[W]e heard two distinct emotions in every speaker’s voice: dedication and desperation. The Obama campaign clearly understands the danger of losing gay supports – and gay supporters should equally recognize the danger of missing out on Obama.
Other points stressed during the call:
* Birch also aptly noted that John McCain does not present a legitimate pro-LGBT alternative, since he represents a continuation of Bush Administration policies and outlook.
* David Mixner (who initially backed John Edwards) and Joe Solomnese were on the call to lend their support.
* The campaign will model its game plan on DNC head Howard Dean's 50-state strategy, setting up hundreds of offices to do outreach.
* The DNC's Brian Bond, who will be based in Chicago for the general election, will coordinate constituent outreach.
* Obama's campaign says it is committed to placing LGBT leaders in key posts.
What I didn't see in Andrew's report is whether there were any LGBT people of color who spoke on that call, or whether there would be outreach to ensure that there will be visible minority LGBTs who are a part of Obama's team. While it is important to include the well-known go-to gays already installed inside the Beltway, part of effecting true change is to recognize the talent out there that will represent the true diversity of our community.
This is particularly important as Barack Obama has been the only presidential candidate to challenge homophobia in the black church. He has done so in front of those audiences not accustomed to being challenged for fomenting bigotry from the pulpit. With that tough medicine must come the salve of visibility, because so many religious LGBTs of color are still afraid to come out of the closet for fear of being culturally and physically exiled from their communities. Many are not comfortable when exiled to the openly gay, socially and politically active community, which is still white dominated and largely insular, exacerbating the perception that LGBT people of color either do not exist and thus there is no problem to combat.
One would hope that Obama, as a perceived change agent, will address this, so that we see more color in the LGBT crowd - black, brown, yellow, etc., as well as gender and gender-identity diversity, the class divide, and regional diversity.
We have our own community diversity issues to address on that front -- I'm speaking about our perceived LGBT advocacy organizations -- the dearth of color in visible positions in these groups means by default that the go-to people the media or political campaigns rely upon don't represent the diversity of the community either.
The fact is that we're all out here, and we're all voters -- and potential leaders simply because many of us are visible. And we know that coming out and being visible is the most powerful change agent there is. How or if that diverse resource is tapped will speak volumes about whether there is real change afoot, or business as usual in our community as well.
Barack Obama's message to the LGBT community is below the fold. He doesn't mention marriage equality, but it's a strong public statement of support that is a far cry from anything McSame has to offer.
“I am proud to join with our lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered brothers and sisters in celebrating the accomplishments, the lives, and the families of all LGBT people during this Pride season. Too often, the issue of LGBT rights is exploited by those seeking to divide us. But at its core, this issue is about who we are as Americans.”“It’s time to live up to our founding promise of equality by treating all our citizens with dignity and respect. Let’s enact federal civil rights legislation to outlaw hate crimes and protect workers against discrimination based upon sexual orientation and gender identity or expression. Let’s repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell and demonstrate that the most effective and professional military in the world is open to all Americans who are ready and willing to serve our country. Let’s treat the relationships and the families of LGBT Americans with full equality under the law.”
“We are ready to accomplish these goals because of the courage and persistence of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people who have are working every day to achieve equal rights. The gay couple who demand equal treatment in our family laws as they raise their children; the lesbian soldier who wants nothing more than to serve her country openly and honestly; the transgendered workers who asks for the simple dignity of being judged by the quality of their work. Generations of LGBT Americans, at once ordinary and extraordinary, have made possible this moment in our history. With leadership and hard work, we can fulfill the promise of equality for all.”
The National Stonewall Democrats commented:
"Senator Obama, and the Democratic Party, are now positioned to win the White House thanks to the work of thousands of LGBT Americans on behalf of both the Obama and Clinton campaigns," said Jon Hoadley, Executive Director. "For over two years, Stonewall Democrats has used our grassroots network to shape the Democratic field into the most accountable and tested group of candidates in the history of our party. From South Carolina to South Dakota, our members organized early to press our candidates forward on issues that are crucial to LGBT Americans."..."LGBT Americans have been a central partner in the Obama campaign since its formation," said Bill Jacobs, a member of both the Stonewall Democrats Board of Directors and of the Obama LGBT Steering Committee. "Our participation assists the campaign as Senator Obama continues to address LGBT issues, not just in front of our community, but before the entire American family."
Barack Obama's open letter on his commitment to the LGBT community:
I'm running for President to build an America that lives up to our founding promise of equality for all – a promise that extends to our gay brothers and sisters. It's wrong to have millions of Americans living as second-class citizens in this nation. And I ask for your support in this election so that together we can bring about real change for all LGBT Americans.Equality is a moral imperative. That's why throughout my career, I have fought to eliminate discrimination against LGBT Americans. In Illinois, I co-sponsored a fully inclusive bill that prohibited discrimination on the basis of both sexual orientation and gender identity, extending protection to the workplace, housing, and places of public accommodation. In the U.S. Senate, I have cosponsored bills that would equalize tax treatment for same-sex couples and provide benefits to domestic partners of federal employees. And as president, I will place the weight of my administration behind the enactment of the Matthew Shepard Act to outlaw hate crimes and a fully inclusive Employment Non- Discrimination Act to outlaw workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity.
As your President, I will use the bully pulpit to urge states to treat same-sex couples with full equality in their family and adoption laws. I personally believe that civil unions represent the best way to secure that equal treatment. But I also believe that the federal government should not stand in the way of states that want to decide on their own how best to pursue equality for gay and lesbian couples--whether that means a domestic partnership, a civil union, or a civil marriage. I support the complete repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). Federal law should not discriminate in any way against gay and lesbian couples, which is precisely what DOMA does. I have also called for us to repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell, and I have worked to improve the Uniting American Families Act so we can afford same-sex couples the same rights and obligations as married couples in our immigration system.
The next president must also address the HIV/AIDS epidemic. When it comes to prevention, we do not have to choose between values and science. While abstinence education should be part of any strategy, we also need to use common sense. We should have age-appropriate sex education that includes information about contraception. We should pass the JUSTICE Act to combat infection within our prison population. And we should lift the federal ban on needle exchange, which could dramatically reduce rates of infection among drug users. In addition, local governments can protect public health by distributing contraceptives.
We also need a president who's willing to confront the stigma - too often tied to homophobia - that continues to surround HIV/AIDS. I confronted this stigma directly in a speech to evangelicals at Rick Warren's Saddleback Church, and will continue to speak out as president.
That is where I stand on the major issues of the day. But having the right positions on the issues is only half the battle. The other half is to win broad support for those positions. And winning broad support will require stepping outside our comfort zone. If we want to repeal DOMA, repeal Don't Ask, Don't Tell, and implement fully inclusive laws outlawing hate crimes and discrimination in the workplace, we need to bring the message of LGBT equality to skeptical audiences as well as friendly ones - and that's what I've done throughout my career. I brought this message of inclusiveness to all of America in my keynote address at the 2004 Democratic convention. I talked about the need to fight homophobia when I announced my candidacy for President, and I have been talking about LGBT equality to a number of groups during this campaign - from local LGBT activists to rural farmers to parishioners at Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta, where Dr. Martin Luther King once preached.
Just as important, I have been listening to what all Americans have to say. I will never compromise on my commitment to equal rights for all LGBT Americans. But neither will I close my ears to the voices of those who still need to be convinced. That is the work we must do to move forward together. It is difficult. It is challenging. And it is necessary.
Americans are yearning for leadership that can empower us to reach for what we know is possible. I believe that we can achieve the goal of full equality for the millions of LGBT people in this country. To do that, we need leadership that can appeal to the best parts of the human spirit. Join with me, and I will provide that leadership. Together, we will achieve real equality for all Americans, gay and straight alike.
OMFG godly plagiarism!
OMFG. Echidne posted a link to blinkytreefrog, who found a book from about 1951 called "On Becoming A Woman". Which is very fortuitous, as the Human Life Alliance has put a PDF of their abstinence-only rags "Just For Girls" and "Just For Boys", which are similar to this 1951 book to the degree that they could be plagiarists. Except I think that woman-hating, sex-phobic nuts basically eat and shit this stuff, so it's less plagiarism and more the fiber of their beings. Shall we do a dance of comparison?
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I like those last two. You can hear the adults writing these things congratulate themselves. "Ah ha! With this dating advice, we'll have them in public where they can't have sex, and they'll never know they've been had. Mwahhahaha!"
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