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Having a summer with a 9-5 job, weekends not spent briefing cases and, in general, significantly less reading than I've become accustomed to, I've picked up fiction reading again.

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The face of the LGBT movement and the mainstream media: tackling the diversity problem

I've noticed that there's a familiar trend of nearly all of the on-air talking heads that represent the LGBT community's anger with the Obama administration and Congress have been urban gay white men. I have to wonder if this feeds long-held impressions and biases out there that this is a "hissy fit" by a privileged class, albeit a gay one. I'm not saying the representation on-air so far hasn't been effective; to the contrary, all the interviews and segments covering the issue have been strong.

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Marriage FAIL, redux

Total coincidence that while we were having some discussions about marriage, adultery, and marriage strikes here at Pandagon, Sandra Tsing Loh was publishing an article about the exact same thing, but of course with a lot more glitz, because of who she is and because she is personally getting divorced after cheating on her husband of 20 years. In her usual snazzy style, Tsing Loh paints a miserable picture of the very existence of marriage, particularly the companionate "have it all" marriages of the yuppie set, with the perfect houses, the perfect children, and the dads who make a big to-do over their fancy gourmet cooking. The tedium of domestic bliss, Tsing Loh compelling argues, kills passion---she even namechecks Laura Kipnis's Against Love and decries the tyranny of having to "work" on your marriage. I'm sure I could chew on the edges and nitpick Tsing Loh's essay, but honestly, I thought it was awesome and I love anyone who copes through dark humor so brilliantly.

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The massive sucktitude of American Airlines is beyond belief

It's time for another airline horror story. Cheer me up by sharing your worst experiences...

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Books you pretty much have to read while listening to music

It's hot. It's Friday. There's a number of great albums coming out this summer (next Friday's Genius Ten will discuss two), and so today I've been thinking more about music than politics. And about reading about music, too, since I like reading about music almost as much as listening to it, and two books on my to-read list for this summer are about music: England's Dreaming by Jon Savage (recommended by norbizness) and Turn the Beat Around by Peter Shapiro. These are histories of the big two outsider music trends of the 70s (hip hop being the 3rd, but it didn't take off in popularity really until the 80s)---punk and disco. Hopefully I can report back some interesting stuff, but in the meantime, I recommend listening to the recent "Sound Opinions" defense of disco. They do a bang-up job, and really talk about how much the "Disco Sucks" movement was a retaliation of straight white guys who didn't like it one bit that women of color and gay men were giving straight men a run for their money in record sales.

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Friday Genius Ten "Kern That Belly Size" Edition

I've put another post up at TPM Cafe, this time about the problem of the rumors about Sarah Palin faking her pregnancy, and why liberal bloggers are more put upon to avoid bullshit than either right wing bloggers or the mainstream media. In honor of what will go down as one of the stupidest rumors to ever tear through the liberal blogosphere, here's today's Genius mix.

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The White House is 'seeking ways' to count same-sex couples in 2010 Census

Following Amanda's post on the right-wing paranoia machine and the 2010 Census, this should give them agita. Pass the Pepto to the fringe...

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In NY for the 2009 Women's Media Center Awards...

Sorry for being MIA in the pandasphere; I've been on the road for the last few days, first in New York to attend the Women's Media Center Media Awards. [I returned to Durham last night and in a couple of hours and I head to Chicago to be a panelist at Blogging While Brown.] Oy. I need s-l-e-e-p. Did I ever tell you all that American Airlines sucks (and I have to fly it again today)?

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When the hell did parenting as soft fascism become so acceptable?

Some things I don't think we're necessarily meant to know, particularly if one is, as I admittedly am, hostile to ever having kids. But morbid curiosity caused me to open this letter to Cary Tennis from a parent (assumed by all the sexists in the comments at Salon to be the mother) whose 16-year-old is "out of control", and who they wish they could just kick out. Eager to find out what "out of control" meant, I was disturbed to discover that the girl's main crimes were having friends over when her parents weren't home (which apparently did result in some jewelry theft, which is fucked up, but there is probably more to the story), screaming at her parents, having her boyfriend in her room, breaking the 10PM curfew, and not allowing her parents to know where she is every minute of the day. Cary responded a lot more gently than I would have, pointing out that perhaps her parents are getting so obsessed with their daughter's rebellion that they forget that she's a human being. Hint hint: WTF a 10 PM curfew on a 16-year-old?

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I hope this doesn't mean that Census takers will have to wear riot gear

I know that we're supposed to hold our noses and ignore the hard right looniness (until it rolls up into another 1994 congressional takeover, and even then, let's not look too hard, since it's catching), but when it comes from undeniably mainstream sources like sitting Representatives and the head of the Republican Party, well, I'm going to look. Jeff Fecke reports that the right, with Michele Bachmann and Michael Steele taking the lead, are going to turn the Census into a political paranoia point for the right. Wingnuts have both long (still worried about how Bill Clinton invented the blow job and Ted Kennedy invented the drunk driving accident) and short memories, depending on what they need, and in this case, they're being instructed to forget that the Census happens every ten years, that it's constitutionally mandated, and that so far, it has not sapped you or any family members of precious bodily fluids. Instead, wingnuts are being instructed to be up in arms about the Obama administration's new invention that is surely designed to rape your daughters and take your guns.

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If Only There Were Thousands Of People In The Middle Of This Thing Telling Us What They Want

imageThere's a reason that we're all so aware of what's happening in Iran. There are thousands of people sending out as many messages as they possibly can whenever they can using whatever means are available. This means two things. The first is that Twitter is now the most important thing that happened to democracy since the invention of the ballot, and the second is that if there is an urgent need for the President of the United States to weigh in with support for the protesters, they will find a way to let him know.

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Basic intellectual honesty is no match for the sadistic impluse of the wingnutteria

Un-fucking-believable. The desire to scalp someone, to separate someone from his job as a show of power to make the wingnuts of America feel like real men who break shit again, has gotten to the point where they're self-righteously calling David Letterman a pervert and a pedophile because he made a joke lampooning an adult woman who is roaming the country preaching abstinence with a baby on her hip. It's true that somewhere wires got crossed, and the daughter Palin took to a Yankees game was actually her 14-year-old and not her 18-year-old, but it's obvious to anyone with two brain cells to rub together that the joke only worked if you thought it was Bristol Palin. And in case you have any doubts, Letterman took great pains to apologize for inadvertently mocking a 14-year-old.

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In 140 characters, the discrediting of the right on Iran

Tweet reading *It should be understood in advance that if Iranian democracy hopes end in horrifying violence, Obama is somewhat discredited too*

Trevitus, above, inadvertantly explains why holding your nose and agreeing with the conservatives is a fool's game.

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