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"Pissed Off Rednecks Like Me" is a racist song. There's no way around it.

After a racist incident like the SAE frat boys singing a racist song---one which is tied into their heritage as a Confederate-sympathizing fraternity---at the University of Oklahoma, there's generally a scramble to minimize this sort of thing, suggest that it's an outlier and not any reason to believe that racist attitudes are common, or, as they did on Morning Joe, try to find a way to suggest this problem is a "kids these days" problem or the fault of black people themselves. But, if you want evidence of how dirt-fucking-common just straight up racism is, look no further than this song "Pissed Off Rednecks Like Me" by Jamie Jones. The song has gone viral and is selling well on iTunes, though most of the material I've read about it is promotional and is likely exaggerating its popularity. Still, that it is doing well is not in dispute.

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All you butt lovers are creating a disaster for NYC sewage workers

The New York Times has a rather disconcerting story up about how the burgeoning popularity of "wet wipes", which are just baby wipes that adults use to get squeaky clean in the ass region after a poop (at least, I hope you aren't also using them when you pee, people), has created a massive sewage problem in New York City, amongst others. Unlike toilet paper, the wipes don't really dissolve in water and so they just clog everything up, creating "dank clusters, graying and impenetrable" that "gain mass like demon snowballs as they travel". There are pictures. It is disturbing.

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Andrea Tantaros is wrong. Men are capable of loving women.

Speaking of transactional relationships, Fox's Outnumbered, which is basically a comment section overrun by misogynists made into a TV show, is at it again. Raw Story's David Edwards reports that the show had yet another hand-wringing session over "out-of-wedlock" births (man, conservatives do love the idea that marriage is a lockdown, don't they?), and, of course, feminism was blamed.

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Men, you can't "buy" sex with chores

I will say it up front: I don't think there's anything wrong, per se, with Sheryl Sandberg and the Lean In organization rolling out a program encouraging men to be thoughtful about how their personal choices lead to continuing inequality. The housework thing in particular is a bugbear of mine. So many men are dismissive of the impact that having to do more housework has on women and their career ambitions, mostly because, since they're leaving most of the work to their female partners, they have no clue exactly how much work it is. Doing your fair share---and showing some actual curiosity about what that fair share is, instead of passively waiting for her to give you a chore list that you will do half-assed until she gives up and starts doing it all again herself---can do a world to free up some time on women's schedules, time they can use to work on improving their careers or even just doing some stuff for themselves so they aren't so stressed all the time. And it can be done without impacting your life that much. If a household has 8 hours of housework a week, it's not going to be meaningfully stressful for each person to do 4. But once one person is doing 6, that can start to put a cramp on her style.

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The University of Oregon undermines ability of rape victims to seek help

This story has been percolating in the blogs and liberal media for awhile, and now NPR has done a piece on it. A student at the University of Oregon is suing the school because, even though they eventually kicked the players off the team and out of the school, she claims the school took its sweet time over it. The alleged rape happened in March and the discipline was not handed out until May. If you know anything about the college basketball season---and who doesn't, really?---the timing of that feels especially suspicious. She is also alleging that the school knew that one of the players had a history of sexual violence, but the Ducks recruited him as a player anyway.

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Face soap is not an existential crisis for manhood

Hat tip to Erik Loomis for linking to this whiny piece by Andrew O'Hagan in the New York Times style magazine. O'Hagan is mad by the supposed pressure men are under these days to groom themselves extensively, which he fears---because of course he does---is taking away his precious masculinity. He describes his anxiety in the most tumescent purple prose imaginable, because nothing bespeaks a confident masculinity like trying too hard. No seriously, read this:

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DOJ report on Ferguson reads like the description of a totalitarian police state

It's super frustrating that the result of the Department of Justice investigation into Ferguson, MO is going to end up mostly being a report. An incredibly scathing report, of course, but I fear that the lack of material consequences for running an egregiously racist police department will signal to other racist police departments that they can continue with confidence with fear of nothing more than perhaps temporary embarrassment---embarrassment that will be easy to weather because it will be leavened by support from white people who believe that the main role of police departments should be to terrorize black citizens into submission.

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Conservative education philosophies vary wildly by gender and race

At Vox, Jenée Desmond-Harris has a really great piece debunking the "acting white" myth, the widespread belief that racial disparities in school achievement are due to black people shaming each other for doing well than due to disparities in education access. You can find no end of people who swear they've seen this phenomenon, but attempts to study it show that it's probably not a thing. Instead, you see a lot of people massaging data to try to prove it, even when the data actually shows the opposite. Desmond-Harris writes:

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The Craig Hicks killing forces us to ask when a parking spot is more than a parking spot

After an atheist named Craig Hicks of Chapel Hill, NC murdered Razan Mohammad Abu-Salha, Yusor Mohammad Abu-Salha, and Deah Shaddy Barakat, an immediate struggle broke out amongst atheists like myself who suspect that the casual anti-Muslim bigotry that flourishes in some atheist circles might have played a role and those who wished to deny that, usually saying that it looks like it was just a dispute over a parking space. Well, Jonathan Katz of the New York Times has investigated. As I suspected was going to happen, there's not some simple black-and-white narrative where we can say for certain it was either just some single-minded obsession with parking or some anti-Muslim animus. For those who are burrowed into the just-a-dispute-over-parking narrative, there's plenty to hide behind. Hicks hasn't come right out and said it was because they were Muslim. He did, in fact, seem to have a big hang-up over parking spaces. It is true that there's no mustache-twirling villainy, where the evil cartoon villain says, "You're right! I am a bigot! MWAH HA HA!" Many will take cover behind that.

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Anti-science becomes purely ideological for Republicans

It's time to conclude that being anti-science is not just a selective thing on the right anymore, but is becoming an ideological position. Science denialism amongst conservatives used to be something that was done not just for its own sake, but in service of other political positions: Denying that global warming is real is about protecting oil industry profits, sowing misinformation about reproductive health care is about justifying abortion bans, that sort of thing. But now we're starting to see more anti-science posturing for the hell of it. Witness this footage Right Wing Watch caught from Rep. Barry Loudermilk from Georgia:

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No one is trying to stop you from making sexist video games. No, really.

One of the most irritating side effects of Gamergate is that it's caused so many male critics, when writing about the issue of feminism and gaming, to adopt a prose style marked by its timidness that drifts frequently into obtuseness, their assholes clenched in fear that the Gamergaters might call them "manginas" if they ever show any level of sympathy for feminist criticisms of gaming culture. Stephen Totilo's piece at Kotaku covering Anita Sarkeesian's talk on 8 ways that developers can make video games better for women is one of the most egregious examples of late. I don't know if this passage is an attempt to mollify Gamergaters or if it's a result of Totilo having some sympathy with some of their stupid arguments, but either way, it caused me to want to make him squeeze a fucking stress ball, have a beer, get a massage, or whatever. Just learn to relax.

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The internet reaches a new nadir: Nice Guys vs. female Serial fans

Emily Shire and Ben Collins at The Daily Beast have written a disturbing article about how the fandom around the podcast Serial has resulted, with an almost depressing inevitability, in misogynists running rampant, doxxing women who have opinions they disagree with on the show and otherwise being harassing asshats. Since the crime at the center of the show is almost certainly a gendered crime---all plausible theories about who killed Hae Min Lee center around the idea that her gender played a role in why she was targeted---the fact that dudes with serious issues regarding women were going to get involved isn't a big surprise. But for people who are lucky enough not to be well-acquainted with online misogyny are likely to think that the Serial harassment brigades are supportive of Adnan Syed's claims to be innocent of his ex-girlfriend's murder. After all, there is a knee-jerk support in their midst for most men accused of rape or domestic violence, regardless of how much evidence there is against them.

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